? R U - The Most Important Question of All

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? R U Well, who are you? (Who are you? Who, who, who, who?)
I really wanna know (Who are you? Who, who, who, who?)
Tell me, who are you? (Who are you? Who, who, who, who?)
'Cause I really wanna know (Who are you? Who, who, who, who?)
Chorus – ‘Who Are You?’ The Who

? R U - ‘Who are you?’ The theme song of the fantastically popular TV show Crime Scene Investigation (C.S.I.) blasts out to confront us with the most important question of life. Without answers to this question your life will never have a sense of Purpose. Without the ability to clearly articulate who you are, you cannot experience the Passion all of us desperately seek in life. Without that Passion you will never have the motivation or fuel to demonstrate and sustain exceptional Performance.

C.S.I. is about the discovery of Evidence. Life Scene Investigation (L.S.I.) focuses on discovering the Evidence that is necessary to answers to the question, ‘Who Are You?’ ? R U Forensics is all about answers, answers to questions, questions about Evidence. Where, what, why, who, how etc. This question is as old as man. Philosopher Soren Kierkegaard, asked these forensic questions about the meaning and purpose of life:

Where am I? Who am I?
How did I come to be here?
What is this thing called the world?
How did I come into the world?
Why was I not consulted?
And If I am compelled to take part in it,
Where is the director?
I want to see him.

He wanted answers! He needed answers! He demanded answers! He really wanted to know! That is what this book will give you; answers. My hope and my deepest desire are that it will help you answer the most important question of all, ‘Who am I?’ - ? R U That is what I have seen it do in the lives of others.

What answers do you have for that question? If put on the spot now, right now how would you answer the question, ? R U. I am asking, this is not a dress rehearsal or hypothetical question you are not obliged to answer, it is being asked here and now!

? R U Imagine yourself in a court room, in the witness box and ready to swear to tell the truth, the whole truth and nothing but the truth. You are not allowed to take the fifth, take a pass or refuse to answer. What would you say to a jury who wanted to know the answer to the question, ? R U This question needs to be answered while you are alive and the sooner the better.

Why would you wait for your life to be over and then for people to ask, ‘Who were you?’ This question has been asked many times in a C.S.I. episode when a body has been found and the identity is yet unknown. If you were lying in the coroner’s office and they began to seek answers to that question, what would they find?

What to this point in your life is known about you? What can be found about the school you go to or went to? Who are your friends and what would they tell of your life? How would people describe you and your personality, the person they see each day? What accomplishments, what accolades, how was your life known, where did you come from, who did you connect to in relationships, what were your beliefs, how did those beliefs guide your life, what schools did you attend, what lives did you affect, what joy and gratitude did you display, and on and on. ‘Who were you?’ None of us want to think about the possibility of lying cold on a coroners slab and having our identity the subject of a C.S.I. investigation. But what if? So, ‘? R U’.

Catherine Willows - "Well, we still don't know how or why he died."
Gil Grissom - "Well, we know how he lived."
(CSI - Primum Non Nocere)

Locard’s Forensic Exchange Principle

Edmond Locard was one of the father’s of Forensics, made this statement about life that describes what we will be looking for.

'Wherever he steps, whatever he touches, whatever he leaves, even unconsciously, will serve as a silent witness against him. Not only his fingerprints or his footprints, but his hair, the fibers from his clothes, the glass he breaks, the tool mark he leaves, the paint he scratches, the blood or semen he deposits or collects. All of these and more, bear mute witness against him. This is Evidence that does not forget. It is not confused by the excitement of the moment. It is not absent because human witnesses are. It is factual Evidence. Physical Evidence cannot be wrong, it cannot perjure itself, it cannot be wholly absent. Only human failure to find it, study and understand it, can diminish its value.' (Locard Exchange Principle - Professor Edmond Locard)

This forensic principle states that you leave Evidence EVERYWHERE you go. The purpose of Forensics and Life Scene Investigation is to collect that Evidence and see what that Evidence tells us about your Purpose in life!

Locard’s Forensic Exchange Principle – Revised

One of the ways you need to think as you apply the Forensic C.S.I. model/process to L.S.I. is to focus on how what we look for. Here is the L.S.I. version of the Locard Principle:

'Wherever you step, whatever you touch, whatever you leave, even unconsciously, will serve as an open witness for you. Not only your fingerprints or your footprints, the calm your presence brings, the songs you sing, the baseballs you throw, people you motivate, the piano you play, the truth you hold in the face of pressure, the photographs you take, the patient you heal, the patience you demonstrate, the part you act in a play. All of these and more, bear loud witness of your Unique Design. This is Evidence that does not forget. It is not confused by the excitement of the moment. It is not absent because human witnesses are. It is factual Evidence. Physical, Intellectual, Social, Emotional, Spiritual/Motive Evidence cannot be wrong, it cannot perjure itself, it cannot be wholly absent. Only your failure to find it, study and understand it, can diminish its value to discovering your Purpose in Life.' (L.S.I. Creator Mark R. Demos)

Life Scene Investigation (L.S.I.) is about life, your life. It is not theoretical. It is a process about discovering life, your life. You leave Evidence of who you are all around you every day. You leave Evidence of your presence, your actions, your connections, your relationships, your motives, your thinking, your decisions, your accomplishments, your attitudes, your Unique Design and Strengths. Everything you do leaves DNA (Physical DNA, Intellectual DNA, Social DNA, Emotional DNA and Spiritual/Motive DNA) that defines and describes you. L.S.I. will help you discover that Evidence, not just any Evidence but Evidence that is based on your Design and the Strengths displayed by it.

Jimmy Tadero: “What never lies?”
Catherine Willows: “The Evidence.”

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